To The Person Newly In Recovery
You are not your enemy. Addiction is your enemy. Your silence does not protect your dignity, it promotes the stigma of your disease. The disease lives in you but it does not define you. You define you.
You are not your enemy. Addiction is your enemy. Your silence does not protect your dignity, it promotes the stigma of your disease. The disease lives in you but it does not define you. You define you.
Today I feel as if I am taking my first good, deep breath in nearly two weeks. I’ve been reading a book (Why Am I Still Depressed by Jim Phelps) about Bipolar ii Disorder and learned that, if you pay careful attention, you can tell when your mood is about to shift. The author says […]
What if we could equate addiction to cancer? Both confirmed diseases. Both without a cure. Both treatable. Both potentially fatal. Could we really acknowledge and believe that addiction, like cancer, is a disease and not a choice?
Lately life, with every up and down, kindles in me the desire for a drink. It’s not as cut and dry as just alcoholism. It’s not just wanting a drink for the rum’s sake, not just the liberation of carefree numb. It’s wanting to be normal. It’s a longing for escape, but not the expected […]
It can be overwhelming to look into the face of addiction and vow “never again.” I remember when I left Dallas headed for rehab in New York. My intention was that I would be gone from the city and people that I loved for the minimum required stay of 6 months and then I would […]
Today’s post is written by a very special guest blogger, who can be seen in the photogaph. She turns 19 in December, and she’s been clean for 8 days. 8 short days if you’re on the outside looking in, 8 very long days if you’re on the one fighting for your sobriety by the hour. Today’s […]
Most of the time when I start writing, I begin with a pretty clear idea of what I want to write about, what it is that I’m trying to say. What ends up as the final product, however, is rarely what I intended. Very often I unearth things about myself, about my thoughts and my […]
The older I get, the more in control I like to be. Suddenly things like “planning ahead” and “knowing what to expect” are important to me, and to my sense of well-being. This strikes me as odd. I thought that responsibility came with family and possessions and, since I have neither, I would somehow get […]
Kicking and screaming sobriety, that’s what this is. I normally end relationships that are this difficult. If I have to work this hard to make you stay, we’re probably better off going in our separate directions, know what I mean? I wrestle with my personality when I’m sober. I have expectations of myself that are […]
If there has ever truly been a time when there was a tug of war between my self-control and my desire to be completely obliterated it is now. I cannot remember another point when my emotions and my desire to drink were so completely connected before, and I was so aware of it. I can […]